Bad Teenage Poetry

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Location: Fort Collins, Colorado, United States

Sunday, March 30, 2008

Getting There

- Five more weeks until the semester is over. That seems like such a short but still long ways a way. These last couple months have represented this weird time paradox for me. I don't know why but I feel like its a good thing. My days and weekends are full of activity and I've been getting the most out of them. This 'fullness' makes me feel like I'm taking advantage of my time here in college. When I'm enjoying myself doing things I love with people I love, the time flies and I've got routines to get me through the less enjoyable parts. So, in other words, it feels like things are flying by but not so fast that I'm missing out.

- The world is my oyster. Its been a long time since I've been so excited for summer. Its setting up to be extraordinary and there are so many things I plan to do in it. Its awesome.

- One thing I have noticed recently though, is how easy it is for me to get lost in my thoughts. Especially when I'm alone. I'll just sit there and dissect anything and everything until I've created an alternate reality for myself that can be tough to snap out of. Sometimes its these stupid blogs that put me there. Sometimes its hearing an unsettling piece of news. Sometimes its when I remind myself of things I was letting stew just under the surface. I think one thing I was missing last spring was people that would be there to snap me out of it when I'd start down one of those roads. People that could pull me down to earth when I'd start to drift away and people that would give me a reason to stick around when all I wanted to do was get away. Spending the summer away taught me who these people are cause they're the ones I missed most.

- I have a good life and its even better now that I'm starting to realize and recognize that I'm not in it alone. Its people that have been there all along, some from when I was just a boy but it took until recently for me to understand the less obvious ways they keep me from going crazy.

- It was a great weekend. One I'll probably remember for the rest of my life. Just now thinking of Kimbre waiting on the grill at Hu Hut making her interpretation of my 'sexy face' is making me smile. I'm tired to the point of exhaustion but I wouldn't have it any other way.

Appreciate the good times
But don't take the worst for granted
Cause you only get
So many second chances

Friday, March 28, 2008

Hmm...

TGIF?

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Niceties

- Things have been going well for me recently. It’s like I can do no wrong. I got a test grade back today that was a lot higher than I expected; not fair for the small amount of work I put into it. It’s usually been my coworker Justin not me making the mistakes at work. I feel me getting closer to my sisters as we get older. Kimbre doesn't hate my guts yet. The weathers getting warmer and the grass is getting greener. It’s all a good sign. Reminds me eerily of the mood of the summer of my senior year.

- I don't know why I do it, but when I'm going through a good time in my life, I always brace for the other shoe to drop. It’s not stupid cause I know eventually it will; that’s just the cycle of living. I just hope the bracing isn't holding me back from enjoying where I'm at as much as I should. It would be a little more justified if I felt bracing myself made things any easier when things don't always go like I want them to in the past. I guess its all in finding that golden spot on the continuum.

- In other news, I experienced a really awkward situation yesterday. I was at the bike rack after work unlocking my bike and getting ready to leave when the guy from central receiving that handles the UPS and FedEx boxes also walked out to unlock his bike. It was locked right next to mine and the way our locks were arranged we had to get uncomfortably close. We both recognize each other from when I run back there to give him things but we're not on personal speaking terms. Every exchange between us has been purely business. I'm not even sure if the guy knows my name. My bike lock was being stubborn so it was taking me longer than normal and we made brief eye contact for a moment when I looked up in frustration. I finally got mine unlocked and almost at the same time we said to each other "Another day another dollar." I don't know why, I think it was just to fill that awkward silence, but it made an uncomfortable situation even more awkward. We laughed sheepishly for a second at the jinx and as I got on the bike to ride away I yelled back at him "Have a good day." He responded with the customary "You too" and we went our separate ways.

- The whole situation got me thinking about how empty words can be sometimes. Honestly, I didn't really care how the rest of his day went. My intentions in telling him to enjoy the rest of his evening weren't actually a wish for him to be genuinely happy but instead more of a socially acceptable way of saying, "I'm leaving now and I don't really expect to see you again until I need to." The whole thing bugged me a little. I know it would have been inappropriate to look him in the eye "I'm a little bit glad that you don't live on my street cause you freak me out" even if that’s how I really feel. It also would have been equally inappropriate to give him a warm handshake and say "Wow, you're a fantastic person and deserve good things to happen to you for the rest of the night" because that would have been insincere.

- I guess the generic "Have a good ones" and "See you laters" are necessary empty nuggets our language has developed that do their purpose. I just hope that I make sure that I keep them to a minimum and make sure that the people I love know when I tell them something that its coming from the heart and that I mean what I say when it really matters.

Saturday, March 22, 2008

- I'm back from Texas and home for about 20 hours or so. Lots happened. Lots to write about. But time for that will come later. I enjoy my moment. Thats good enough for now.

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Getting...

Lost
by Matt the Electrician
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I had a dream last night that you were pregnant
But you can't get pregnant when you're dead.
Maybe I'm wrong.
Maybe I'm wrong.
If you come back
Try and let me know
I just wanna say hi, congratulations.
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One time I thought you were my cat
But she took a crap on my pillow
I changed my mind about that one.
Maybe I'm wrong.
Maybe I'm wrong.
If you chase birds
Scratch the screen door
Just try not and scratch me and my wife so much anymore.
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Sometimes everything means nothin'.
Sometimes I can't believe myself.
When we're driving in my dreams its in your car.
I don't know why but we're lost
Its just where we are.
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I heard a psychic meduim on the radio.
Said he could hear spirits, I thought about callin' in.
Maybe I'm wrong.
Maybe I'm wrong.
If you're standing there
Wisperin' in his ear
Do me a favor and tell him why the f*** you jumped off a cliff.
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Sometimes everything means nothing
Sometimes I can't believe myself
When we're driving in my dreams, its in your car.
I don't know why but we're lost, its just where we are.
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- This guy is amazing. This song, like most of his songs, makes me want to laugh and cry at the same time which for me is music nirvana.
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- I don't have much to say. The weathers been nice up until today which has been making me really excited for the summer. I love my job. I love my roommates. I love my friends. I miss my family. I'm sick of school. I'm excited for spring break with Kimbre. The new season of South Park made me laugh until my sides hurt. I'm sad my black Old Navy slippers broke. They were tough. Hell, I did a little rock climbing in those puppies one time when I was caught unprepared and they got the job done.
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- I wish I had more opportunities to write. Its probably for the best though. If I wrote an entry in this thing everytime I experienced or thought of something I found unique, interesting, or relevant than I'd never do anything else and anyone that ever reads it would really get overwhelmed.
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- So I won't overwhelm you. I hope the rest of your week goes smoothly. :)

Tuesday, March 04, 2008

March

- Like many of my posts this time of year I'm writing from the library. The ginger kid sitting across from where I'm studying just stretched out, yawned really loud, threw his book over his shoulder, then curled up in the fetal position to go to sleep. Each step in that process was jerky and borderline violent. The strangeness of his actions really startled me so all hope of studying for a little bit was lost to my mild case of ADD.

- Heres a few things that have randomly crossed my mind today:

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- I love Fort Collins. Its pretty close to the perfect little town, but today I realized its dark little secret that me and everyone else that loves FoCo often overlook. The wind. Its never really an issue most of the year but come late winter early spring; BAM. It hits you. Its cold. Its hard. Its miserable. It makes it hard to ride your bike back from class. Its pretty easy to forget when its gone and town is back in its full glory but right now, my city is in its Hyde stage. I can't wait for the summer.

- I'm very guarded in terms of talking about my relationships. People often don't know I'm with a girl unless they heard about it from someone else or have asked me about it. No matter how much I like a girl I'll rarely talk about her even if she's dominating my thoughts. Often, even when someone asks me something in that arena I'll either dodge the question completely or give a pretty generic response. I don't know why this is, just the way I am I suppose. If I talk to you about a relationship I'm in or even was in, you're either a really good friend to me and/or you asked about it. The reason this whole personal oddity crossed my mind is because its led to some kind of funny situations over the last month or so that will remain solely mine.

- Month old snow isn't pretty. Go away snow.

- There are a lot of people in the world. A lot. Nothing will help you realize that better than working in a mail center. One of the projects I was working on today involves sending out 30,000 pamphlets to high school seniors across the country. Each one is on its way to a different person with a different story and different experience. One was to a guy named Ken Doll, by the way, which made me laugh. As I worked, though, something that helped me pass the time was looking at some of the names and trying to imagine their story. There's probably someone else in the world that hears a name in that bundle and has their stomach churn for reasons good, bad, or both. There are probably other names in there of people that have done great, extraordinary things the world will never hear about. Everyday I sort through at least one love letter someone else is probably waiting anxiously for. A funny story about that was in a letter written on a postcard that went into graphic detail about what some dude's girlfriend was gonna do to him next time she saw him. GRAPHIC. The whole thing makes me realize that the world is big and even though sometimes I convince myself otherwise, I am I'm not a huge part of it. That would make most people feel really lonely but not me. My experiences matter to me. I may be insignificant, but my life to me and the people I change isn't.

- Music from the 70's is overrated. I don't like it. Any of it. I don't care if it was the influence for modern music. Its one relic of American history I could do without.

- My family is unique. Really unique. Between my four sisters and me there are thousands of ways that we're different from each other. Yeah, there are the similarities; Julie's a little more like I was and Jenna, to a lesser extent is a little more like Jessie. But for five individuals raised under the same roof our various approaches to life and our experiences growing up aren't anything alike. On a bigger scale, the way my whole family interacts and loves each other is very a-typical when I compare them to my friends and their families. I'm really glad. I think the core of all this is my family values responsible individuality more than most and our relationships with each other embody this. I love each and every one of them and knowing they're always there for me is the glue that holds me together even when everything else is falling apart.

- Some people are just plain stupid. No reason to be nice about it. They can't help it and it isn't going to change. They are doomed to a life of being dumb.

- On a similar note, there are some people I look at and can't figure how they can be happy. I was talking to Jeff about one of my coworkers who is just a surly old lady and she can't be older than 27 though the bags under her eyes and the snarl in her face would say otherwise. I know I should probably live in her shoes a day before I really make such a judgement, but I just can't see her enjoying anything much less her life in general.

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- And thats that. Long post I know. I'm sorry. I feel its necessary. I've almost hit the 3 year mark writing in this thing. Three years of my life documented in the form of short nonsensical blurbs. I've come a long way in that time and its fun that I can go back when I want to. If I really feel like digging I've always got my notebook I wrote in before that. Cheers.